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How To Have A Happy Marriage!

By on November 6, 2014 in How To's
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How to Save My MarriageFirst off, is there really something as a happy marriage .. a blue pill.. a magic potion or some kind of super psychedelic phenomenon where by you hold the reins on your spouse, to bring him/her under your spell, making them as perfect as you want them to be?

I hate to be in your face and tell you that there is no magic… no blue or red pill or no “hocus…pocus” when it come to a happy marriage. However, you can define your needs and wants and create an environment so vibrant and make yourself so enticing to your significant other, in such a way, that you become dominant their thoughts. In every passing hour of the day/night all they can think of is YOU.

How To Have a Happy Marriage

Now you might have a different scenario than the rest. Or you may have landed on this page with a different thought in you mind like how to fix a marriage. Regardless of what your thoughts are on marriage, there are few fundamental tips that makes marriage run like a well oiled machine. Forget all the marriage therapy crap. A therapy is nothing but a consolation so to speak or a intermediate medium where a third person gets to know your family affairs and tries to unify your bond. Is that really necessary. Do you really think a marriage therapy will work? For some it might – but for many marriage therapy is just way to expel your funds into greedy hands.

You do not need any kind of marriage therapy to make your marriage work. In order to lead a happy married life, the most important tool you need to have is a proper mindset. What do I mean by proper mindset. Well, you must first know and figure out the following:

Your Mindset Rules:

  • How do you visualize your marriage. In other words what is a ‘happy marriage’ to you?- Jot down all the things from your perspective that defines a marriage that will make you happy
  • Do I really love my spouse?- Love, that is crucial. without love there is no point in even moving forward. If you have lost your love for your spouse, then it is time for you to think of other alternatives. But if you still love your other half then take the time to jot down everything you like and dislike about him/her. Then compare your list. Most often than not your list of like will outweigh the qualities of your dislikes list.
  • Do you really want to make your marriage work?
  • How passionate are you in creating a happy married life?

There are many more factors that go into a successful marriage. But before dwelling into any more tips or resources you need to first get your mindset right. You really need to have the passion and really want to have the need to make your marriage work. Don’t just sit around wining and complaining or asking how to have a happy marriage.

Final Words of Wisdom:

Do something about your marriage. Not tomorrow…Not Next Week.. Not Next Month – But today. The time is never right than now for you to ACT! So Act Now and start working on your marriage with confidence and you’ll be amazed at the outcome.


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