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3 Effective Ways to Save A Relationship

By on September 7, 2014 in Advice, How To's, Relationships
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How-To-Save-Your-RelationshipAre there such things as ‘happily ever after’ and picture perfect marriage? It may be possible but expect a lot of bumps and hurdles along the way. Marriage ain’t a fairy tale to begin with. But when you believe the marriage doesn’t meet your expectations, you tend to curse it to reality – then eventually your so-called fairytale will start slipping away.

‘Where did we go wrong?’ – the one-million dollar question when things are not working for the both you. It sort of becomes a dragging unwanted desire to be in the company of each other. Then as each day pass you by you become more distanced from your spouse only to realize that you aren’t meant to be together. It’s a given that marriage isn’t simply a walk in a park. But if one of you thinks of getting divorce, it’s already a concern.

How to Save A Relationship:

Keep in mind that divorce isn’t merely the only method nor the single alternative for your romance that is withered. Consider this analogy: say you notice a plant appearing dry, you’re initial reaction would be to water the plant. Take this particular analogy and apply it to your marriage. You should think of tips and/or suggestions which will nurture your relationship in the long term rather than jumping into divorce.

      1.  Be a good listener: Relationship only starts when you attempt to listen with care all problems between you and your spouse. Remember always, your relationship is a two-way process. If you want to be treated the way you want, you need to treat your spouse with the same gratitude as well.
      2. Organize some surprise date: Those boring and regular routines you both share should be forgotten 10 feet under. You need to know the definition of being exceptional. Platitude dates must not be part of your ‘itinerary’, it might be intimate but its boring and overused. Put some effort in all you do, it’ll significantly be returned with so much admiration from your partner.
      3. Plan for a holiday just for the both of you: Most times, stress is the important reason of misunderstandings. Better go and pack your things up – have fun together, make new memories. Get one with nature, seduce your spouse and be one with each other and soothe all your worries out. It might sound poetic but it’s certainly an A for rekindling your relationship.

Relationship especially marriage – even if you are still dating – difficulties and problems are supposed to be there. Regardless of how hard you work your arse off, you’ll never avoid those issues. It’s as if saying ‘hi’ every time you face one so deal with it. It’s not like you can use some blinders or blinkers, the one used for horses to avoid distractions and just go ahead straight. But it’s not, this is what we call as the ‘reality’.

Make an effort to try other options not mentioned above. Try to save your relationship like it’s the last thing on earth. And when after all the hard efforts you put in to keep your marriage intact, if you still feel like there’s not a single improvement, then it might be better off apart.

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