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10 Reasons Why Men Leave Their Marriages

By on September 7, 2014 in Advice for Women, Divorce
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Marriage is a sacred bond and just like everything else in life – this sacred bond has to be tend to with care, affection, compassion, passion and love. Given the fast paced life in today’s world, rarely do we get to spent time for ourselves. And in this furlong between life and balance – the essence of marriage seem to have lost its priced possession – the feeling and the intimacy and care that is readily deserves.

One thing is certain and that is no marriage is perfect. If you ever come across anyone who says that their marriage is picture perfect that that is a load of absolute BS. The main reason being – nothing can be perfected enough – there is always a room for improvement. And those people who are adamant on insisting that their marriage is perfect – chances are their marriage is at the brim of utter failure.

Marriages just do not fail or fall apart overnight. Most marriages often end after months or even years of deliberation of both spouses trying very hard to resolve their conflicts. Of course, if you are a celebrity then this is an exception. But overall, the failure in marriage most likely is a result where the spouses are unable to work out their differences and finally arrive at the cause of – irreconcilable differences.

Now the tough part is when you are in a marriage that is on shaky grounds then your mind is constantly in war juggling with the thought of whether to stay or get out of the marriage before it becomes worse than it already is. In order to have a clear picture of the right cause that pushed one spouse to call it quits may not be that easy unless that spouse has ended their marriage and take time to think back to the events that pushed their ultimate – “I QUIT” button.

Thanks to the ever increasing popularity of social media, researchers are able to gather sufficient data on any topic of interest that greatly effects the current population. And one such research from the social media realm was about why men choose to end their marriage. Some of the responses, gathered from divorced men, are an interesting read.

In no order of precedence here are the top ten reasons why men choose to end their marriages:

1. Her constant outburst just made him sick

Now imagine a wife who is constantly nagging about her needs without giving any consideration towards her husband. A husband, who just lost his job, had his car repossessed gets home to find more depressing news about a relative who is at the brink of death.  Just then out of now where the wife decides she needs a Louis Vitton bag that costs about $1500. Given the circumstances, the husband is shocked, and yet without losing his cool calmly responds to the wife saying, he cannot afford that much at the moment. And from nowhere the wife begins to cry, shuts herself in the bathroom and begins cursing. Moments later she steps out asking whether he wants a divorce. The moment has come divorce has been laid out on the table.

2. When the trust is gone

It’s very rare that your own gut ever wrongs you. And deep inside you get the feeling when something is right and when something is horrible out of order. One such aspect is when your wife decides to speak highly of her male co-worker praising on his looks, his work style and the way he interacts. Add to that if you were to find out flirting text messages, then you know something is up. Better to end it when the time is right rather than being too late to regret.

3. When his wife becomes a glorified roommate

Just imagine the feeling when both spouses begin to live like roommates. Sleeping in different rooms, cooking at different times, not caring about each other, stopped cuddling, stopped showering with each other. And to top off the list when she says she don’t love you anymore – then that is a sure-fire sign that entails the man to say ‘Enough – I’m Out’

4. When the math don’t add up

Imagine your surprise as you get home from a 7 month deployment oversees, working hard to protect the life of Americans, and fighting for the country – after traumatized battle experience only to find out the your wife who is eagerly waiting for you is 5 months pregnant. Can you figure that one out!

5. When the wife simply kicks your emotions to the curb

When you have someone whom you love so dearly, only to laugh hysterically right at your face, when you tell her how depressed, hopeless and sad you feel – you know right then and there that “YOU” do not matter to her.

6. You have a dream? Oh! No. What Dream.

Men have historically proven to be creatures of great strength and endurance. But when it comes to his loved one he always has a soft corner for her. But what if she is not willing or do not believe in your abilities. When I wanted to become a doctor after working as a clerk at the doctor’s office – I suggested my desire to my wife who is a pharmacist. To my horror – not only did she blew me away but she didn’t think I had enough neurons to even be a janitor. Fast forward today, I’m in my 5th year residency on track to become a Neuro-Surgeon.

7. When it comes to raising children.

Maybe this could be an off-off. But can you imagine being home-schooled by a wife who never graduated high school and was totally against taking vaccinations? I don’t think so.

8. When she cheats

This is fairly obvious. Infidelity – anyone?

9. When your second wife starts to miss-treat your kids from your first marriage and thinks it is okay to emotionally and mentally scar them

Oh!! Hell No..

        10.  When he realized having hobbies of his own is off-limits

What if you never get to embrace your true passion? You get stomped and stepped on – watched constantly like hawk eye – under the microscopic lenses of suspicion then it becomes a bit to crazy and far-fetched to make your spouse understand that you need your space.

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